And I've now spent one week thinking about this book and about how more people should read it. It's a love story - but not in the style of Marianne Keyes! In fact not in the style of any love story I have read for a very long time, which has made it totally refreshing and very very beautiful.
It is called
One Day by
David Nicholls and I was drawn to it because of the subtext above the title of the book "twenty years, two people". "It's not often a love story decides to cover twenty years of a romance," I found myself thinking. So, I picked it up and read the back cover which informed me that if I read this book I would be following the lives of two people who hooked up one drunken evening at university and then went their separate ways the next day. I would then re-visit them on that day the following year, and then the year after that, and then the year after that. Intriguing, don't you think?
Emma is very much another Bridget Jones character, except she's a little bit more down to earth and she manages to get her life sorted out
before she is swept off her feet by her Prince Charming. (Which, is a little bit more like real life, and a much more positive idea for single women to embrace). Dexter is the typical bad boy, and, like happens to all bad boys, he gets himself into a lot of trouble and is irresistable to women. But what David Nicholls manages to convey to us about this guy is that he actually gets hurt by all of these mistakes and as life goes on he doesn't want these things to keep happening: it's as if he keeps getting knocked down before he's ever able to stand up and regain his stamina. Emma and Dexter manage to maintain a friendship over twenty years, sometimes they are close, sometimes they are not (Speaking as someone who has a few friendships that are heading towards their second decade I know that this is what these friendships are like. They become more precious over time, but have gaps in them where our lives have been too different to be compatible.)
I do not want to ruin this page turner of a book. I want people to read it. I happened to be reading it at the same time as "Eat, Pray, Love" which is a MUCH WORSE read when read in tandem with this book. As "Eat, Pray, Love" becomes more and more decadent and self-obssessed, "One Day" becomes more and more sincere and tender. I lost compassion for Ms Gilbert, but fell in love with Emma and Dexter as they were trying to live their lives, rather than figure them out. They were just like me, and the love stories that they were living were just like mine. I didn't feel quite as alone after reading that book.
If you are looking for a book that is refreshingly different, but also an amazing reflection of real life and real love, then try "One Day". If you want to feel a little bit more inspired about the love you already have, and have had for many years, then read this book. It is beautiful!